The Immoral Police

IN part two of stories about those who have encountered the religious police, freelance writer Nabila Nasir, 25, recounts the harassment and extortion she and a now ex-boyfriend experienced at the hands of moral guardians in mid-2007.

The KL-born and raised Nabila says that until today, she has no proof that the man who claimed to be a religious enforcer was really one at all. Eventually, though, Nabila and her then boyfriend were allowed to go free without any charges. In this exclusive phone interview with The Nut Graph on 26 May 2010, she gives a blow by blow account of what happened.

The Nut Graph: Tell us what you were doing before the authorities showed up.

Nabila Nasir: Back then I was dating a Chinese [Malaysian] guy, who was studying in Sydney and came back during his break. He came over to my house one weekday, in Subang, to watch a movie on DVD. After the movie, we went out to have ice cream in Taipan. We were dressed very casually – I didn’t even bring my handphone or IC with me. After ice cream, we drove around and stopped at a park. We kissed a bit, and
after five minutes a police car pulled up behind us. This was around 7pm, I guess.

In the car were three men — two in police uniform and one plainclothes. All three were Malay [Malaysian]. The plainclothes man said he was from the jabatan agama. When we got out of the car and I sked for his ID, all three said, “You are in the wrong now, so it’s not your place to ask for his ID.”

What did you say to that?

I said, “I know my rights.” When I said that, they asked my ex-boyfriend to order me to go back into our car. I didn’t want to, but I eventually did. They ended up taking my ex-boyfriend’s IC. I could
overhear them telling him, “This is khalwat. Your girlfriend could be charged, and you would also have to go to court and angkat sumpah. Do you want to go to court?” Then they asked him for RM300.

I shouted from inside the car, “No bloody way!” I told my ex- boyfriend, “If anyone is going to get charged for khalwat, it’s going to be me and not you, so don’t listen to them!” Caught off guard…

I couldn’t call any of my lawyer friends because I didn’t bring my phone with me. So I demanded to use my ex-boyfriend’s phone to call my friends and tell them what was happening. But then I realised I had not memorised any of their numbers. I pretended to dial the phone anyway. I could sense the officers getting scared when they saw me
doing this and they continued telling him, “You don’t want to go to court and face the hassle.”

I was really losing my temper, but my ex-boyfriend kept telling me not to lose it, because he didn’t want to get into more trouble. The three men then refused to give him back his IC and asked us to go to the police station. I was like, “For what?” But I went eventually with my ex-boyfriend.

Why did your ex-boyfriend follow them, and why did you choose to follow them as well?

The thing is, they acted rough with my ex-boyfriend every time I started kicking up a fuss. I really didn’t want to go along, but I didn’t have my wallet on me, or my handphone, or my IC. Which police station did they bring you to? Did they tell you if you were under arrest?

Bersih, cekap, amanah…?

It was the USJ8 police station, and no, they didn’t tell us we were under arrest. At the police station, they then asked us for RM500 so that we could settle the issue right there and walk away. I said, “We are not paying you RM500.” But then my ex-boyfriend agreed to pay. But we didn’t have any money on us at that time. That’s when they asked me for my home address, and I said, “No bloody way.” My ex-boyfriend then
decided to call his friend to borrow the money. I said, “No bloody way! That’s not the point!”

But then the officers all started threatening him again, telling him he couldn’t go back to Sydney, that they could do things to withhold his visa to re-enter Australia. In the end, my ex-boyfriend caved in and called his friend.

Did his friend come?

Yes, it took about 20 minutes for his friend to come to the station. While waiting for his friend, the officers started harassing my ex- boyfriend. They said things like, “Are you serious about going out with her?”, “Getting married soon?”, “You’re not scared of getting circumcised?”, and “Don’t you want to convert to Islam?”

Then my ex-boyfriend had to go to the bathroom and they started harassing me instead. They said, “Oh, your boyfriend is lucky to have a girlfriend with big breasts.” And then they said, “There’s no more shame in this world when Malay [Malaysian] girls can stoop to dating Chinese [Malaysian] men.” And then they asked me, “Is Chinese penis
really that good?”

How did you respond to this?

I glared at the religious enforcer and said, “Yes, it’s delicious and I love it!”

And what did he say to that?

He was shocked into silence.

Then my ex-boyfriend returned from the bathroom and everyone was quiet for a while. He signalled at me not to make a scene. Then his friend arrived with the money, and he paid them off. They didn’t give us a receipt or anything, and told us we were free to go. As we were leaving, the religious enforcer said, “Don’t forget to invite us to
your wedding.” I said, “Don’t forget to bring a RM500 ang pow.” Has this experience affected you in any way?

It does make me a bit wary about where and who I hang out with now. I mean, I live in a condo in Bangsar now, and I’m always having dinner parties and some of my guests include men. But if any enforcers tried to intrude, I’d probably still try to fight them off.


  1. hahaha! to all those insecure melayu babi-minded losers out there, yea - i've fucked a hell lot of your melayu girls all the time!!! and guess what - i'm chinese AND malaysian, AND proud of it!!!!wahahahahaaaaaa!!!!

  2. hypocrite religious officer. i have a chinese bf and we got harassed once too.

  3. haha..malay woman is dare to broke the rules of are not deserved to be in malaysia..please..go to another country that practice "do all thing baby" and dont come back here..shame to ur parents!!

  4. i thing the title is not "the immoral police" should be "immoral malay girl" ;)

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  11. Wow, I never knew Malaysia has this type of racism going on... very eye-opening story. Thanks for sharing it.

  12. it's funny how some readers still says stuff like "get out of malaysia" "you immoral malay girl" etc. this issue is focusing on the misconduct of the officers, not on whether it's haram or not haram to date a person of a different race.

    whether the race is chinese or not (for bf), religion vise perhaps she is wrong - in terms of kissing and all, but they seems to say that this is alright if both party are the malay.

    in short, in malaysia when you have that sort of "authority-power" you can do anything - it's called "OPEN EXTORTION". all this allowed to happen because we have people like those "anonymous readers" saying things like "shame to your parents etc etc" - focusing on an issue that's not being talked about. *knock knock* that is way beside the point, unless of course ur brain is of such slowness that you still can't grasp the whole content of the article above.

    we just need stronger laws to protect the citizens. the reason why police is in our country is to protect us, not to bully the people in the name of the law.

    so bloody screwed up

  13. It's terrible... Moral police to protect our morality.

  14. The police should be reluctant to arraign anybody on the vague charge of committing “other immoral acts” after a Constitutional Court slammed the law's lack of definition, according to lawyers.

  15. great post!
    i thing the title is not "the immoral police" should be "immoral malay girl" ;)
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  16. This is screwed man! I mean we are all people even different in races we are still the same. Why can't they realize that.

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